Crossing the LINE ....

Friendship between two people belonging to opposite sex is very complicated when compared with the normal guy-guy stuff or gal-gal stuff .... You have to keep a distance when it comes to the first case. The closer you get, the distance ultimately narrows down to just a line ....

You meet a gal, like her and start talking to her .... and

A YEAR LATER ....

"You're a jerk. I never thought you had these intentions on me. Thats it between us."

Probably someone who had crossed that dreaded line with his friend would be expected to be immediately sorry .... but a simple 3 letter word can be so capricious that it could simply break your relationship .... EGO.

Instead of a sorry .... you say .... You're blowing this too much and turn your faces against each other ....

2 YEARS LATER ....

Who yields first stage .... this is the stage wherein you hold on to your ego and want the other one to come and restart things ....

But no matter how many times this experiment is carried on .... the result is the same .... and
GUYS YIELD FIRST ....

and then its all about smiling at her to start with and then atleast a 100 hundred sorry before you actually find out that she no longer recognizes you .... In her eyes, you don't even exist ....

MOVING ON ....

Its so disturbing for a guy to know that everything in his life is ruined but nothing has affected her .... She infact now excels at everything in your absence .... After getting treated as a non-living thing and being looked down upon, you finally realize that its time to move on when she already has ....

And this is where beer helps
" if she doesn't miss me, am not gonna miss her either .... "
The moment you say this to yourself you're gone .... You start to miss her like never before .... you see around and everywhere she is there .... and love happens.

But all that insult and the injury caused by her stops you from approaching her again ....

3 YEARS LATER ....

Every guy wants to be successful in both his love and his career .... But in this case you do but she doesn't .... so you probably feel " whats the point in waiting ? " and give your career a priority ....

Your mind says sensible stuff which your heart denies to listen .... you just can't let her go .... now you don't know what to do and you say to yourself .... " This is the last time am gonna try .... aur jo hoga dekha jayega .... " you pick up the phone and dial her number ....

tring .... tring .... tring ....
She picks up and says " HELLO ....

4 YEARS LATER ....

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