8th may

Before whatever I’m about to say in the following few paragraphs , I’d like to dedicate this post to all mothers in this world who have no dreams but to make our dreams come true .. and especially to my mom .

Women , as we speak , are so difficult to be understood . But may be we miss the larger picture as we focus on only our age group . We start to wonder as to why they are so confusing and switch back and forth on their words . Well , lets keep the darker side of them apart (will discuss that on some other post :p)

Over these decades , so much has changed about them (its hard to be mentioning women everytime ..) they have become independent and courageous enough to venture into almost every field . Their vision has broadened and so has their world . But nothing has changed the way they are inside the family and that’s what makes them lovable ..

Girls are more attached to their families than guys are , something which is in their dna and a basic virtue which has not changed thou so many things about them has .. The presence of a little sister makes our family life more enjoyable and joyous than ever . Silly pillow fights ,to buy her an ice cream seeing her crave for one(have a natural sweet tooth) , pull her ribbon and so on .. happiness which money can’t buy (I’m smiling thinking about my 8 yr old cousin sis as I write this ..) would’ve dearly loved to have one of my own .. unlucky . Such is the happiness a girl can bring into a family .. sweet little angels ..

Very often we’ve heard that the love of women is the glue which holds a family together . And nothing can be compared to the unconditional love of a mother – “ epitome of kindness and love “ . I don’t know if becoming a mother imparts so much knowledge . There is nothing they don’t know about us . So often I wonder when my mom would say so much just by the way my bro would say “hello” on phone , so much intuitive . may be it was a guy who coined the term “ sharing “ but I’m damn sure it would’ve been a mother who first introduced it to the world .. Taught us so much about life . The only being who’ll love you to death and strive for your betterment no matter what it takes . It’s a word to us and world to them - “family”.

But what changes in that "between" phase when they don't know whats more important - family,love or career ?? still wondering ..

You can’t blame a girl for acting “crazy” in that transition period from a little girl to a mother . Their hearts are always bound by chains called family and relationships .. The exact things I stated above , bro’s affection , mom’s love , dad’s trust and so on . Its so hard to break these chains when one has been showered with nothing but love so far in her life . And no matter what they do in that “transition” period , its that affection and care they give back to their family as a mother which makes us respect and love them .

Love you mom ..